Why 'Hell or High Water' Should Be on Your Thanksgiving Watch List (Yes, Really)
- Viknesh Silvalingam
- Nov 19
- 4 min read


So here's the thing. Every year around Thanksgiving, we all know what's coming: the parade of heartwarming family movies and .... if we're lucky, someone's annual pitch to watch Planes, Trains and Automobiles for the hundredth time. Don't get me wrong, I love Steve Martin and John Candy as much as the next person. But sometimes, you need something with a little more... bite.

That's where Hell or High Water comes in. And before you say, "Wait, the bank robbery movie?" Yes, that one. The 2016 neo-Western with Chris Pine, Ben Foster, and Jeff Bridges. Trust me on this. Nothing says Thanksgiving quite like two desperate brothers, a stack of stolen cash, and some serious questions about what family really means.
What Makes an Alternative Thanksgiving Movie watch list?
The best holiday movies aren't always the ones that wrap everything up in a neat little bow. Sometimes they're the ones that make you think, make you uncomfortable, and give you something real to talk about after the pumpkin pie is gone.
Hell or High Water is that movie. Two brothers, Toby (Chris Pine) and Tanner (Ben Foster), execute bank robberies to save their family ranch from foreclosure. Hot on their trail: Texas Rangers Marcus Hamilton (Jeff Bridges, absolutely crushing it) and Alberto Parker (Gil Birmingham). What starts as a crime thriller becomes a meditation on family, poverty, and what you're willing to sacrifice for the people you love.
Why This Works as Counter-Programming
It's Not Your Typical Feel-Good Holiday Movie
The brothers' relationship is messy. Toby's the quiet one, trying to do right by his ex-wife and kids. Tanner's the wild ex-con, one bad decision away from disaster. They love each other, frustrate each other, and ultimately make devastating sacrifices for each other. That's real. After years of sugary holiday programming, something is refreshing about a film that treats family dynamics like they actually are: complicated, imperfect, and sometimes painful.
It Bridges Generations

Got older relatives who remember when Westerns ruled? Jeff Bridges gives an Oscar-nominated performance that honors classic Western traditions. Younger crowd into modern thrillers? Chris Pine brings serious intensity to a contemporary crime story tackling predatory banking and economic inequality. This generational bridge is exactly what you want for Thanksgiving viewing; everyone finds an entry point, and each generation brings wildly different perspectives to the post-film conversation.
It Sparks Real Conversations
After you watch this, your family isn't just going to discuss whether Chris Pine looks better with or without a beard. You're going to talk about values. About choices. Were the brothers justified? The bank was legally foreclosing, but does legal always mean right? What would you sacrifice for your kids' future? These aren't abstract questions; they're grounded in real economic anxiety and family dynamics that a lot of Americans understand on a gut level.
Core Thematic Connections to Thanksgiving
Sacrifice and Redemption
Thanksgiving celebrates sacrifice, right? Hell or High Water asks the harder question: How far would you actually go to give your family a better life? Tanner sacrifices his life in a shootout that lets Toby escape. Toby gets what he wanted; his sons' financial security but he'll spend the rest of his life carrying the weight of his brother's death. The film understands that real sacrifice comes with real consequences. Neither brother gets let off easy.
Generational Legacy and Breaking Cycles
The brothers inherit a ranch and crushing debt from a reverse mortgage their dying mother took out for medical care. But there's oil on that land. Toby sees a way to break the cycle of poverty that defined their childhoods. His methods might be criminal, but his motivation is universal: wanting to give your kids a better start than you had. This hits different during Thanksgiving, when you've got three or four generations at the same table.
Economic Desperation in Modern America

The film captures the economic devastation of rural America without taking a moralising stance. Boarded-up storefronts, "Debt Relief" billboards, people barely scraping by. The Texas Midlands Bank isn't a cartoon villain; it's just an institution extracting wealth through legal means. This is worth talking about over Thanksgiving dinner: What does it mean when hard work isn't enough anymore? When does the American Dream feel less like an opportunity and more like a rigged game?
Final Thoughts
Look, Hell or High Water isn't going to give you warm fuzzies. There's no heartwarming reunion, and you're definitely not leaving with that "everything's going to be okay" feeling. What you will get is a film that treats you like an adult, presents real moral complexity, and trusts you to wrestle with difficult questions.

So this Thanksgiving, after you've survived the awkward small talk, bring out your watch list and suggest watching Hell or High Water. Then actually talk about it... the real stuff.
What would you sacrifice? What you've inherited. What you want to leave behind.
Because sometimes the best way to appreciate what you have is to watch characters fight desperately for what they don't. And sometimes the most meaningful holiday conversations happen when something real cuts through all the Thanksgiving clichés.
The film earned four Oscar nominations, including Best Picture and sits at 97% on Rotten Tomatoes. Plus, it pairs surprisingly well with leftover pie. Just saying.








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